Strong and Sturdy
Before The Beekman was lovingly restored, it had been abandoned, left to weather the brutal elements atop the hill it has graced for more than two centuries.
The aging structure, with its grand rooms and firm place in the annals of the local lore, was far too much of a temptation for teenagers and vagabonds looking for a place to call their own. The walls were pocked with graffiti and the hallways littered with remnants of other people’s lives.
One day, earlier this year, one of said teenagers stopped by the farm and asked if The Table was still there. All she could remember about her time spent in the house was the massive table that stood in the dining room.
“No,” we said.
When we moved into The Beekman there wasn’t a stick of furniture, and we assumed that The Table had long since been turned into firewood by one of those former inhabitants as, from our visitor’s recollection, it was far too big to move.
Though in many modern homes the dining room is one of the most infrequently used (and is often absent all together), for The Beekman, it’s the most important piece of furniture in the house.
It must be big enough to hold the season’s harvest and serve up a celebratory meal.
It must have room for every visitor who stops by.
It must serve as a foundation for growing a business, for wrapping soaps, for slicing cheese and such
It must be sturdy enough to withstand angry fists pounding to emphasize a point and must not, repeat, MUST NOT back down when confronted with tiny fists grasping crayons.
It also must be comfortable because sometimes, whether from exhaustion or emotion, sometimes you just need a place to lay your head down and cry.
Josh turns 40 this year, and I could think of no better gift to give him than…a dining room table.
Master carpenter Jim Sharer of Cherry Valley, NY worked on the restoration of The Beekman, replicating pieces of molding that exactly matched those that had been hand-crafted centuries ago. There was no better craftsman to turn to. Working with a giant red oak tree felled on his own farm, planks were hewn and then assembled and then sanded and smoothed and stained by my own hands.
The result is a modern version of an old farm table, a 600lb, 7 ft by 8 ft ebonized monument to everything we hold dear.
Like our relationship, it is steadfast and stridently sufficient. Far too large to move, once in place there it shall stay, marking our custodial turn at The Beekman long after we are gone, long after the teenagers and the vagabonds have returned and until someone, someday decides to use it for firewood.
What is YOUR dining room story?
176 Comments
Good morning. As an early riser I have a regular routine: I pour my first cup of morning coffee, sit at the dining room table and enjoy the quiet of the new day. As the coffee begins to kick in and my eyes can once again focus, I flip open my laptop to check overnight email and make my morning stop here at Beekman.
This particular post is just wonderful. You captured the importance of the dining room table perfectly. I think most everyone has, at one time or another,used their dining room table in the ways you described.
What a beautiful gift. I can only imagine all the activity the hand-crafted table will support.
Time for a refill…
Hi, Kenn
Maybe I’ll have coffee at the new table this morning. No chairs yet. I’ll either sit on top of it or underneath it
Happy Birthday to Josh–may you both enjoy the table for many years to come–it is stunning! It will be a wonderful surprise to everyone who gets to see it.
What a wonderful gift. Both your writing and the table. Happy Birthday to Josh and all the best to the two of you.
I really love the simplicity of the table’s design, as well as its solidity. And you’ve created the perfect combination: a work space and a work of art. Every nick, scratch and gouge on my table reminds me of the wonderful holiday meals and buffets, lazy Sunday brunches, baby and wedding showers for friends and family and all the other events which invariably result in a few dings. Enjoy every lunch, dinner, breakfast, corn-husking, pea shelling, present wrapping, craft making, coffee sipping, buffet holding, pie cooling minute you spend there.
Thanks, John
That was quite poetic
Hi, Dr. Brent.
I have always loved farm tables because they are so large and solid and everyone who stops by the house can fit around and share in the bounty. I always imagine the stories they could tell…
What a glorious monument to your love and relationship and that you worked on it as well makes it even more of a treasure.
Happy 40th, Josh!
My dear Brent……
Table is wonderful, really and truly. HOWEVER, that
crocheted table cloth I am making for you both may
need some extra hands. Any of your web friends want
to contribute????? I am making 4 inch squares and joining
them…….easy pattern. I am more than willing to join AND complete the edging……………… Otherwise, I may not live to
finish it.
Maybe you’ll have to teach us to knit. It could become a winter project
That sounds like an amazing gift! But, how did you get the 600 lbs. table into your house, presuming of course you put it there?
Hi, Edith
Let me tell you. It wasn’t easy. The table was made so that the entire top can be removed as one piece. It took six men to move it into place! It’s not going anywhere!
The table is absolutely beautiful. I would go with chairs that are equally as massive and that are simple in design. A chair that invites you to sit and then keeps you around the table to enjoy the simple pleasures of being at a table.
Thanks, Linda
If you see something that might work, send us a photo
I like the fact that you want to live with your table…the furnishing of a home should be used everyday, the scars of everyday life should be embraced as character, each one will tell a story that can be retold…the time Josh scratched it with a knife while trying get the candle wax off–luckily you don’t have any dogs to chew on the legs…
Hi, Bill
In that situation, the first cut is the deepest
just don’t get into a fight about it or do…in ten years you will laugh about it..
very, very true
The table is beautiful. We had a kitchen table that my oldest son made in High School – it was 5′ by 7′ – not quite as large as yours nor as beautiful – but if it could talk, there would be some wild stories. As you say laughter, tears, crafts, games, etc. There were 9 of us around that table for every supper and sometimes the kids next door would finagle an invitation. I’m sure you’ll enjoy “the table” as much as we did ours. Belated Happy birthday to Josh and I’ll make sure his mother keeps at that tablecloth – by the way, its crocheted not knitted.
Hi, Ruth
We can only hope that our table will have wild stories to tell, too
Happy birthday to Josh! The table looks gorgeous! what did you guys do with the glass(?) table in the kitchen – is it still there?
Hi, Tony
The glass table is still in the kitchen (I’m sitting at right now). However, it only seats 6, and we like to have bigger dinner parties than that!
how lovely. i also loved how the table lingered in the teenager’s memory. we are wanting to create a harvest table for the outdoors a big gorgeous square instead of a rectangular would perfect for guessed to all be part of one conversation!
That sounds lovely. I love gracious outdoor tables. We have a spot in a grove of young sugar maples that I would love to create an outdoor entertaining area
Happy Birthday Josh!
My sister-in-laws and I used to make all of the Christmas and birthday gifts and they blessed the souls of both the giver and receiver! What a great feeling and sense of belonging it creates. Your table is a beautiful table as it will be used, but a real token of true love and affection as a gift.
HI guys,
A beautiful table…. I have a far narrower table (but with leaf 10′ long)… it has a beautiful cherry top, and I’m afraid to get a scratch on it…. my kitchen peninsula counter gets all the wear and tear it seems!
It must be great to have a table as wide as yours (to hold all the food). My table, usually ends up with no food, and I serve buffet style…as the center is too narrow!
Anyway, just wondering what the dimensions of your dining room are?
What type of chairs are you looking for? Perhaps mismatched farm chairs would be great…something Martha did in her Maine kitchen, with a variety of different stools?
Take care!
Gary
Lake Geneva
Hi, Gary
We ARE thinking about mismatched chairs. It’s VERY hard to find 14 matching chairs!
Happy birthday to Josh! Wow – great table…. I would love to see mismatched wooden chairs…maybe one side could be a bench. Can’t wait to see that picture that I know you will have at Thanksgiving. I have a similar (rectangle though) table on my outside patio – 4 kinds of metal chairs and a crack down the middle. We love it!
Hi, Nancy
That sounds beautiful!
Happy Birthday Josh. Brent, having a beautiful, sturdy table such as yours is of utmost importance when playing a game of Spoons. Growing up, my 5 siblings and I would play “Spoons”. It is a card game where you grab spoons from the center of the table upon reaching a perfect hand of cards. There was always one less spoon than number of players (think musical chairs). If you didn’t grab a spoon when the time was right, you were out. Said spoons would get sent flying and there were many swan dives, wrestling matches and an occasional bite to the knuckles to gain a spoon. Not a game for the weak of heart! Fondly, I remember my mother’s dining room table for the delicious food and the hours of laughter.
Betty
You will have to join us for an inaugural game of spoons as soon as we get some chairs
LOL. I would be happy to do so.
Of course, given your speciality, we may also have to have a quilting bee
Quilting bee, herb lecture, spoons, I’m flexible! With a family who played spoons, you probably better understand the “crazy” of the crazy quilting I do.
My round table of chestnut has three leaves which makes it a gigantic oval. 300 small children can sit around it! But, for adults, I have 4 matching chairs, a piano bench, a dresser bench, a little bitty step ladder, a rocking chair( which anybody can sit on if they want to rake the food into their mouth at chin level!). Anybody left over sits on the sofa with one of those trays which slides under the furniture! It is FUN!!!! LOVELY table you have there! I once housesat for a caterer who had a big square table she worked on in her kitchen, like a huge cutting board, but you couldn’t get your knees under it, had to sit sideways. Once or twice a month, she would pour oil on that thing and work it into the wood. Happy Saturday!
PS: When I turned 40,in the last century, !!!, my friends at Harcourt, Brace and J gave me a Gorilla Gram. Everybody screamed before they realized she wasn’t real!!! Then we went out after work and drank! Great bunch of folk there!
Somehow I knew that the dining room table would bring out more stories than any other piece of furniture I could write about
I always think of the table as the “house’s anchor”. Many happy celebrations center around it, many storms ridden out at it.
I love that it will serve you and Josh in this way – and I hope when you mentally review a time-lapse visual of your lives, you can look back and see the many people that gathered around it and know that you’ve lived the most enriched life together.
Thanks, Will
That is EXACTLY our intention
I stumbled on your website and had to comment – I am a recent transplant to a rural area to create a life of simplicity and sustainability for myself and family – not something I ever thought I would do but have been very inspired by people and events in my life. Much of my most powerful inspiration comes from my youth when I would visit my grandfather who was an iconic country physician in Sharon Springs when I was young – he lived on a farm just outside of Cooperstown, and my most precious possession is the farm table he made for his 8 children (oldest of whom is my mother) that now sits in my farmhouse. What a wonderful choice of a gift… and I believe your website is a gift to me that will inspire me further in my journey.
Michelle
Hi, Michelle
Thanks for finding us and for sharing your memory. Please drip by often. We’ll save a seat at the table.
Hi Brent,
The table looks great, I am very impressed, you know thats good comming from your city contractor.
Bob Tobin
BC INTERIORS
Hi, Bob
Thanks! See, I learned a lot from you! I hear you are working on a nice project right now. Can’t wait to see the results of that.
I don’t think this would fit into the apartment in the city
Hi Dr. Brent;
I just met you in NY and bought some of your wonderful soap.
You seemed like such a unique and nice guy so I looked up your web site and I found it interesting – just like you.
Your choice of a new career and life style is one that I am sure will bring you much joy. I’m sure it took a great leap of faith to do. Good luck.
I am glad that I met you.
Terri
Thanks, Terri
I am amazed at how many wonderful people I met while working the counter at Henri Bendel! Have a wonderful holiday
Morn’n (as it is referred to here in Atlanta).
As it is June 16’10 I believe I am the last boy on earth that hasn’t heard of the Beekman until this week. You just came out with your new program on Planet Green and I am literally “eating” it up. My wife is very hitting me over the head, because the show or comments that are made on the show, I referrer to through out the day..lol
I cannot wait to get a glimpse of the table on the show.
Just one fast table story….
My family and I gather around our huge dinning table every Friday night, the dinning room is over the top but it is ours and we love it… We enjoy each others company as we laugh, talk, argue politics and sip wine. It is a focal point in our home. I wish you and Josh many years around your fabulous lovingly built table.
Wil
Hi, Wil
Thanks for watching the show and especially thanks for telling your dining room story. We loved it
This thread just touched my heart..I’m from Minot North Dakota and I remember many, many times sitting with my extended family around my grama’s huge round table in the kitchen..she had no dining room..the german kuchen, the homemade chokecherry jelly, and the ups & downs of the german accents all talking, laughing and drinking coffee are a memory I treasure. Your dining room table brought me back…thank you…and I adore your show & have absolutely fallen in love with you both….God bless you…Deb
Thanks so much for sharing, Deb.
Love the gorgeous table! I am SO relieved that you were able to get the table in the house. Hope you and Josh enjoy it.
Have a wonderful day!
Jennifer
love the table… simple, beautiful and elegant. Do what my mom did for us as kids…. drape blakets over the top and crawl under to hide, unwind, play…. your own secret world. May the table be part of many happy memories!
love that idea, Susanne.
I love the show, and the table was even more endearing. May it be around for years to come, and never see the inside of a fireplace.
Happy Birthday Josh, and for many more to follow. And God bless you Brent for helping to create such a wonderful birthday gift.
Best wishes to you and Josh for continued success!
Chris T.
Brent, I am thrilled to say I watched my first episode of The Fabulous Beekman Boys. What a beautiful property and an entertaining show! The table you created for Josh was magnificent. May you share many fabulous meals around it.
Tables do make for the best stories. My grandmother, Phyllis Beekman, had a wonderful tradition. At holidays or whenever guests were present, she would pull out the “signature” tablecloth. The first time a guest would dine there, she would have them sign their name in pen, then she would embroider it. As children, we loved finding our names on the cloth during meals.
Here’s to much success for Beekman 1802 and for the show. I can’t tell you how thrilled I am to see the Beekman name on television. You have stirred many nostalgic thoughts of Beekman Orchards, my grandparents farm, for me. Can’t wait for the next episode! I know I can watch them online but there is something magical about waiting for each week on the tv screen!
just absolutely LOVE your show. Happy birthday to Josh. Ya’ll are GREAT!!!I can’t wait to order some of the soap to spice up life here in Texas. The table was WONDERFUL, what a great gift and such a surprise. May you enjoy the table for many, many, years together and may the next wedding at the Beekman be yours.
Just love you both!!!
Thanks, Tammi
Hi, Kim
We think there is something magical about waiting, too. It makes you appreciate things more
Brent and Josh,
I watched the show last night and loved it! My favorite part was seeing Josh’s expression on his face as he watched you shovel the manure. I was wondering why you were doing it in your jacket though. For the TV show? : )
GREAT table, and i see you got it in the house! What do you have for chairs?
Brian
Hi Brent,
I just watched this episode yesterday…along with about 3 other episodes as well. I am totally in love with the show and will be tuning in weekly to see what you and Josh are up to next!
Glad to see that the table found a way in to the house
Dr.Brent,
My grandma raise me and we have this wonderful table in the kitchen that has a story behind. A lady that she grew up around ended up getting ill and before she pass on she ended up giving her the table. Of course there more to the story,but I wont take up your time telling you the whole story. Everytime I my grandma tells the story her eyes light up with joy. As she says the table brings us all togeather. We may not agree on the advice people give, but we do agree on that a home cook meal brings us all togeather
I’m willing to help Josh’s mom crochet the tablecloth! I knit and crochet and my hands are always willing to help. Send me the pattern and kind of yarn/thread she is using I will do what I can. Heading thru NY on my way to Boston to see my son and his new boyfriend in a month. Not sure if your along the way??
The table is gorgeous and will be cherished for many years as you said, even after you are gone. I have furniture that was my grandparents. Some needs to be restored but I can’t bring myself to change them. Someday maybe I will be able to bring myself to “redoing” them.
The table is absolutely beautiful. Its so great Brent that you made that for Josh. Its a very sweet gift.
Thanks for sharing, Windy.
Thanks for tuning in , Jennifer!
We’ll post pics of the chairs soon, Brian. Stay tuned
I would love to help crochet, can Josh’s mom email me the pattern?
Loving you all and wishing you more!
Hi, Melissa
I’ll send her your message
Ready hands and willing heart! If you need help crocheting the tablecloth to the Josh and Brent table–I’m your girl! Gramdmother trained and ready to go!
Bonita Moffett @ epatina@aol.com
Good Morning Brent and Josh,
In surfing the Direct Tv schedule, I am not finding new shows, who do I complain to? Short of moving to Sharon Springs to become part of that fabulous community, it is truly an artisan community.
Loving you both and wishin’ you more.
Hi, Melissa
I think you need to call Direct TV, but I will also forward your email to the folks at Planet Green. Thanks for watching (and searching!)
Dr. Brent the table is absolutley beautiful both in design and the emotion behind it. My husband and I envy the wonderous world you two have created at Beekman. The goats the lovely llama your gardens and Farmer John seem to offer a little paradise. Thank you for allowing us a little peek.
Eliza
Thanks, Eliza
We do realize how lucky we are
Hi Brent:
Have you ever found any local history to indicate how the Beekman mansion was furnished when the Beekmans lived there, or subsequent residents (other than the squatters and vandals who took refuge while the house was in decay)? In some of the wills I have studied while researching my own family history I have been amazed to find interesting lists of household goods and furnishings bequeathed to an heir in a will. Other documents created as part of tax assessments, administration of an estate, or old photos taken at family functions can also yield clues.
This kind of research takes a LOT of time which you probably would choose to invest in other aspects of your business. Perhaps a local historian, antique dealers, or even some of the visitors to this site can offer information or at least suggest what was available and likely to be procured for the mansion in 1802?
Hi, Roger
This is an interesting idea
Good Morning Boys!
Just wanted to say Thank you for all the laughter, living and learning! You have a great show to watch and learn from. You both are so personable that it makes it easy to write here and feel comfortable because from just watching 3 episodes it seems as if we have known you forever! Keep up the GREAT work and look forward to more to come!
Happy Soaping, Cheesing (is this even a word?
, and whatever else you get into!
Thanks again,
Gregory & Larry
Thanks Greg and Larry! Spread the word!
No need to worry already spread the word to everyone we see! Plus when do you have the time to do all the farm work, soap & other duties AND answer all your comments? However you do it it must work. But remember to take time out for yourselves!
Again,
Greg & Larry
Brent Thank you for making a difference for so many. From the farmers to the young people that will see from watching the show that gay is ok….. Love from New Orleans Thom
Thanks for the nice note, Thom!
Brent and Josh -
We just saw your wonderful show for the first time. How delightful to finally see a “Reality” show with such heart – and one that also brings lots of laughs and smiles. Farmer John is also sweet – if all people felt as he does about animals, this world would be a better place.
Your table was truly a labor of love – and so beautiful – just like your show!
We wish you continued success and happiness at Beekman Mansion.
Thanks, Fran. Spread the word
I just watched your show and really enjoyed the episode, I am a carpenter and that table – wow – is truly a great table and a great gift. You really show how much you care about each other and where your passion is. I will continue to watch your show with a smile on my face, keep up the good work. Sincerely Bendix =)
Thanks, Bendix. I’ll pass this compliment along to Jim, too
My husband brought home a dining room table that had been used in a family probably for over 100 years. The legs on the table were large round dowels that one screwed in with very old casters. One look at that table I had to have it in the middle of my kitchen regardless whether it matched or not — or the fact that it had water rings on it. The wood is weathered and warm — and I know somebody sat in a farmhouse and drank their coffee in the wee hours of the morning before heading out to the barn. My husband and I are going to give it a light sanding to remove the water rings and put a clear varnish on it — just to keep the same warm wood sitting in my room.
sounds lovely, Eldora
Dr. Brent,
Your blogs reflect the type of person you are. Sentimental and beautiful, in here (pointing to my heart).
Thanks, Summer. I do try
Dr Brent and Josh,
The table is truly beautiful. I imagine you both will cherish it for many many years. I can see many quiet dinners shared with good friends at that table. Thank you for sharing the table story. And we love your show, it is wonderful.
Thanks, Robin
Dr. Brent & Josh,
I’m glad I added your show to my TiVo seasons passes so that I do not miss a single episode! It is a welcome change of pace. I’m enjoying the beautiful scenery, unique property, and all of the learning experiences you both are sharing through the show.
I live in New England and try to support local family farms as much as I can. I even volunteer at a local farm that runs educational programs for children and families.
The two of you are really doing a great job preserving a part of America that is vanishing at an alarming rate. I once heard that 10,000 small family farms go out of business each week (!) Keep up the great work.
Thanks, Leah. We are doing our part and are so glad to hear that you are, too!!
What a beautiful gift you created. Your gesture and youre table were so lovely, I cried. Thank you so much for sharing your lives. You two seem like such amazing humans beings. Here’s hoping your tv journey helps to change many a mind about what love is really all about.
Yikes! Sorry for the typo! Though you kindly provided spell check for us, I flagrantly ignored it. What a rebel:)
ohmigosh!! i watched “unhappy birthday” the other day….so it looks like the table finally made it inside?? yippee!!
love love LOVE the show!!
Thanks, Lizbeth
Thanks, Jackie
Dear Brent and Josh…
My husband and I love your show! Having grown up in the country, we now live in a suburb of Pittsburgh, PA and can appreciate “a more simple” way of life! I try to bring my canning and gardening into suburbia and happy to say it’s working!
Seeing you both work so hard to juggle your lives between city and farm (not to mention your own relationship together) shows how much you really care! And seeing you create your soaps and cheese from your own goats is just so refreshing! We are ordering the cheese and can’t wait to try it!
Keep up the great work and know how much you are both loved. Best to you both!
Thanks for the wonderfully kind note, Barbara. Let us know how you like the cheese!
Hi Brent I actually wanted to reply to Josh’s mom’s post about needing help with the crocheted table cloth, I have recently learned how to crochet and would be happy to help if some how she could send me the pattern, and color choice. ^_^
Since this forum is regarding the “kitchen table”, I wanted to let Brent and Josh know that you boys have helped me have an important talk with my two kids aged 8 and 10 about what “being gay” is. We sat at our “kitchen table” and had a talk about being compassionate and open to all people, no matter what their sexuality is. Your episodes have helped me show them an exapmle of two men in a loving relationship. So, thats what been going on at my “kitchen table.” Keep up the good work!!
Dear Dr. Brent and Josh: Have you ever read the book, “On a Street Called Easy in a Cottage Called Joye”? I may have that backwards but you get the gist. I call it “the HAPPY book”. My friend Ray called me when he stumbled across your show. He said, “It’s the HAPPY BOOK”. Beekman Mansion even resembles Joye Cottage.
Okay, I just made the supreme sacrifice and went upstairs to look for the book. It’s by Gregory White Smith and Steven Naifeh. You will have “deja-vu all over again” if you haven’t read it yet.
Also I just finished reading Michael Korda’s, “Country Matters”. Another good one.
You realize, I hope, that you are living every city-dweller’s dream.
I watch each episode several times and have told all of my friends about it. In fact, I am watching, “Studs and Suds” right now for the fourth time.
Can’t wait to come to “Harvest Fest”.
Continue to keep us all entranced with your love and lifestyle.
Love, too, to Farmer John. I get teary every time he is with his “girls” – so much unconditional love there.
Polly Remke
Thanks for the kind note, Polly (and the reading list!)
Hi, Justine
Thanks for helping your kids “reach across the table”
I am so glad to see you were able to get the table in the house, because on the last episode (Josh’s 40th birthday)you all had a problem getting the table in the door. I have really enjoyed catching up to your programs on Plant Green and I am looking forward to future episodes.
Our table is set EVERY night for dinner. It may just be the 2 of us or expanded for a party. It’s a place to enjoy.
Hi Dr Brent! I love the show, love you and Josh. Remember seeing you on Martha and thinking what an interesting guy you were! The table is lovely, Josh is incredibly lucky to have someone so thoughtful! Can’t wait to see what else you have been up to. You’re living my and my husband’s dream!
You 2 gentlemen truly warm my heart…to see your love and real care for each other. And it reallllly shows in this glorious birthday table you have gifted Josh on his 40th. Dr. Brent! If you ever think of hosting a quilting, I’m there with my stitchers to put this huge table to a new use!
Well I love the gift you gave Josh, it was so nice! Sadly, my family doesn’t really do much together, we mainly go our separate ways. But my mother and I do have our moments when we’ll sit out on the front porch and talk about our day, what we did, and things like that. Have fun on The Beekman!
I think a quilting bee would fun!
Thanks, Julie
How you stop back by to share with us often!
About the gorgeous table; what about an old church pew on one side or maybe an antique sofa? I hope you keep filming episodes for a very long time. You both have delightful personalities and fill me with laughter and optimism and I get educated inspite of myself. I will be ordering soap for Christmas gifts this year. You and Josh seem polar opposites, yet are such a good balance to one another. Much success in your endeavors!
I am so glad to learn the table made it in the Manor. LOVE the show! Recorded them and have watched them at least twice. If you ever get Polka Spot a friend, name her Dolly!
I love the show and bought both of Josh’s books today. I day dream of trading my career in the IT industry to doing something outside in the fresh air. I wouldn’t even mind some manure.
Thanks!
As someone who appreciate handmade items (both culinary and otherwise)I can imagine no greater gift than something that is so personal. Kudos! What a priceless and timeless gift to give. In our current society where everything is disposable and thus most things have very little value you have crafted and given something that will only gain value over time. It is beautiful and already has a story to tell.
Thanks, Aimee
Hi Dr. Brent,
I truly love watching your show. finally a reality show that’s not only fun and charming, but one that makes you think. Your comment during the Porgy and Bess episode last night about appreciating meat was a light bulb moment for me. All I could say was, wow, he is right.
I’ve been on a clean eating challenge with my local YMCA for the past three months. Not only have I lost 20lbs, but I’m learning about getting back to basics. Taking the time to appreciate the art of real cooking using very simple techniques and ingredients.
Our 6 yr old son has a typical autism and has sensory issues with swallowing and eating. We are currently working with a therapist at home on these challenges. Since I started the Y challenge, my son and I created a little salad garden on our patio and we are implementing that into this therapy. He takes great pride in caring for his own little sustainable garden and picking lettuce for meals.
You and Josh are such a joy to watch. You are making a difference. Keep up the great work.
Thank you!
Thanks, Kim. We are so pleased to hear about your “success” story and would love to see pictures of your son’s garden when it is at its peak
I love the table you made, only wish my kitchen was big enough to have one like it.
My passion is canning jams and jellies, I only wish I had you marketing skills to be able to do it on a wide scale. If you and Josh like blueberrie perserves, I would love to send ya’ll (yes for the deep south!!) some it would be good to have with your cheese. If ya’ll would like to try it let me know and I’ll send you some jars. Hopefully your show will be on for years to come, it’s great!!! Doris
love this whole site, the concept, the people and ‘The Bucolic Plague.’ The table looks great and enduring. I’m off for the summer, away from electricals, but before I go, I must say…’Josh turns 40 this year – ahhh, so very very young. What joy!’
Jule aka RosFrankie
Hi, Just wanted to say the idea of the table for a gift was so sweet. The dinning room table makes so many memeries for people and I am sure it will for you also. I don’t often watch TV but want you to know that your show is my favorite and I somehow always find a way to catch every episode and often the reruns. Thanks for sharing your lives….hope you are blessed in so many ways.
Hi, Amanda
We ARE blessed!
What kind of question is that, Doris? Of COURSE we love blueberry preserves!
Today I picked 3 gallons of bluberries. My friend has a 5 acre section of his cow pasture, naturally feritilzer, section off and grows the most beauitful blueberries I have ever seen.I get to pick all I want and in return I keep him in perserves, muffins, pies, cobbles and cake all year. They freeze great, after picking I picked through them and flash freeze, vacume pack, the freeze. I wash them before using them that way they retain their structure and consistancy without turning to mush till I tell them too LOL. Will pack them next week hope ya’ll enjoy!!
I adored watching the episode where you gave Josh the dining table! I am a new lover of the Beekman name and what you guys are doing. The show has shown me a different way of living.
It got me thinking about the food we eat and where it comes from and to be thankful and a place to sit and have a meal. Currently, we don’t have a dining room, or even a table. I am newly married and I grew up eating dinner around a dining room table and something is missing. That real connection you get by having a celebratory meal on a table, or just the two of you. Like you said it is also a place to lay your head when you have a bad day. My husband’s 30th birthday is in 2 months and I think a dining room table would be perfect…showing a commitment to our life together and many memories!!!
THANKS FOR THE IDEA!!! I am just happy you got it in the house!!!
-Whitney (A new fabulous follower)
Brent,
Since we all know Josh’s Birthday, when is yours and where in North Carolina are you from? I’m still loving you both and the show is phenomenal. Having been raised in N.C., with a small farm with pigs, I loved the last show. It brought back memories of a young girl, with her dad and the hogs going to slaughter. Its bittersweet, but the circle of life continues and the memories endure.
Dr. Brent,
I literally saw a commercial for your show yesterday, put it on my TiVo, and watched 4 episodes today after taking a practice MCAT. It’s great to see a show as inspiring as yours. I came out about a year and a half ago. As freeing as it has been, I feel it is going to hinder my chances to be a doctor and find love. I know it possible and it great to see you have both. I’m amazed how similar I am to you and I guess that’s why you inspire me.
I’ve grown up in a 180 year old log cabin on a beautiful, park like 30-acre lot that we have recently brought up to the 21st century. It’s turned into one of those houses that have the wow factor. I guess I’ve always wanted to do something similar to what you are doing later in my life but never 100% sure it would happen. I’ll just have to see if my parents keep the place till after medical school. I have a passion for making bread and cooking. I find its a great study break from organic chemistry, lol. I’d send you some bread to go with your cheese, but I doubt it would make it there while still fresh.
I’d love any advice you would have to give me. I know we live in a society where my sexuality shouldn’t matter, but it still looms over me. I’m keeping my fingers crossed I get into med school!
Nathan
HI, Nathan
Hang in there. I’ve found that most of the limitations we perceive and the obstacles we face are self-imposed. The good news is that they can also be self-corrected.
Hi, Melissa
My birthday is May 10, and I grew up in the small town of Randleman, NC
Hi, Whitney
You may just become a Beek-Geek
Brent and Josh,
Just a note to remind you both, you don’t realize how much you both touch others lives, you are two very special men. Don’t ever give up on anything, you have the ability to change lives, from small children to old women. Must be that Carolina upbringing for you Brent.
Have a wonderful week,
Dr. Brent:
I thought you might like to hear my story about a dining room table that means quite bit to me. When I was a little girl and was taken to visit my paternal grandmother I would sit in her dining room and play for hours at the dining room table and the hutch/china cabinet. The table was a drop leaf style and always was draped in a crochet lace tablecloth. I played Barbie dolls on that table and drew and colored and had a blast playing at the china cabinet because it had a drop surface secretary with nooks and crannies. When my grandmother died she left me the the dining room set. My parents had it shipped to their house and it lived in their basement after that.
Long story short, at a later time when my partner and I were moving to Arizona I asked my father to let me take the table, hutch and chairs. He refused to let me take it saying that he didn’t approve of my lifestyle and wasn’t going to support my choices. So Bev and I went to Arizona and bought a beautiful alderwood table with 2 leafs that make it possible to seat 10. On this table I completed my Bachelors and Masters work, fed my friends and family, did multiple projects, wrapped Christmas presents and numerous other projects. Life has taken place around and on this table and it has absorbed wonderful energy. Many years later when my mother passed away I did receive the set my grandmother left me. It still holds so many memories and history. I cherish both of my dining room tables for all the wonderful stories and history they have absorbed. Best of luck to you and Josh on your beautiful gleaming masterpiece.
Thanks for the wonderful story, Cindy
Dear Brent and Josh,
I LOVE YOUR SHOW!!! I find it funny and loving. You guys are so cute together. You remind me of me and my husband. I being Brent and Steve being Josh. The scene where Brent plants the flowers around the porta potty and then Josh goes in and messes up the floor, I replayed that scene to my husband and son. You guys are adorable and I wish you much love, happiness, and success in your endeavors.
TLC
Thanks so much for watching, Thelma. I’m so glad you are not afraid that you are like me!
Josh may be the author with two books to his credit (which I’ve got on my reading list), but there’s poetry in these words of yours, Dr. Brent! I enjoy your well-written blogs, the goats, Polka Spot’s antics, Farmer John’s subtle wit, and the caring nature you show for the land & your animals and each other. Now…must hop over to the shopping link and order some of your cheese! I’m sure I’ll become as addicted to it as I am to FBB!
Thanks, Eve!
When I think about our dining room table, I think about all the dogs, past and present that have managed to find their way underneath it. Always waiting for that elusive crumb to drop or for someone to senak them a bite. They always ate whatever was handed to them “under” the table, no matter what it was. We went from a home built in 2006 in GA to an old home built in 1845 in Misouri. We too have goats and instead of a llama , we have alpacas. Our turkey are blue slate, not bourbon red but I see alot of similarities in our farm and yours. When we moved here, we were the “odd” couple. My husband is black and I am white. Not many black wannabe farmers here in Missouri . Not many people that give up jobs in the city to try and live a more sustainable healthy lifestyle. But we did and are loving it. Not sure if this will be our final stopping ground. I do miss the hustle and bustle of the big city ( Miamian here) I love the look of Sharon Springs and the fact that you can hop on a train and be in NYC in a short time. who knows, you may run in to us someday in your quaint town.
Dr. Brent:
Love your show and love your blog about your table. My mother has her beautiful table covered with a tablecloth and plastic cover for fear my children, (6 yr & 14 month old) will scratch it or spill something on it. It made me sad and I could never put it into words or explain why to my husband. After I read your blog, I knew why. Tables are meant to be used. They are to be used for fist pounding and crayons. They are meant to be used and not looked at. Thank you for putting into words what I could not. Now, my husband understands. Now, my husband is in search for the perfect table.
For that, I will be forever grateful.
Send us a photo when you find, Frances. Maybe you should design your own!. I’ll bet there are lots of woodworkers in your area who would appreciate the business
Hi, Brent the table was just stunning, what will you do this yeat? It’s going to be hard to top that. We never miss your show, you have inspired us to want to grow our own fruits and vegs. We have yet to read Josh’s book or try any of the products but can’t wait to do both. Do you guys give tours of the farm? The reason I ask we are going to be in your area in Aug. and would love to see the farm.
Maybe I should design one?! I don’t know if it would be even half as beautiful as yours! I actually called two woodworkers in my area and we have appts set for Sat. Thanks for the thought….and yes, I will send a photo once I have the fist pounding, crayon fearless, perfect table!
Hey Brent and Josh-
We love you both! My girlfriend and I watch you guys and say “That would so be us!” You both are great to show your real life-Thank you for your honest moments.
I was worried about the table- and sad to see the piggies go- ALSO WOULD HAVE LOVED TO BE THERE FOR THE GHOST HUNT!!! The goats are so funny-but Pokey is my favorite!
I will be ordering soap soon- Keep up your awesome job- Would love to meet you both during a festival in your town- Keep us posted on the next up coming festival.
HUGS From your girls in Memphis-
Susan
I was on your site this morning looking to plan a Saturday jaunt to the mercantile when I stumbled across your words on the table. Tears welled in my eyes because you described the significance and love that a dining room table brings to a home so accurately. I am blessed to be sitting at my own dining room table that was passed down to me. The table initially belonged to my great grandmother, who was immigrated to Chicago from Sweden. I live in an area which celebrates Stickley, so it’s fun to have a Danish modern piece that attracts many compliments as well as my own fond memories of family dinners and gatherings.
Hi Brent and Josh!
I just finished watching your Thanksgiving TV episode and enjoyed seeing your fabulous table in use. It’s nice to see your family and guests gathered around such a large table — and with room to spare with nobody’s back to the camera!
You guys are so blessed to also have the perfect dining room to place it in and be able to enjoy a beautiful fire in the fireplace. Thank you for sharing your holiday, your friends, and your parents with us. I am enjoying (and thankful for) every episode!
Hi Brent & Josh
Just started watching the show. and I love it. My partner and I have watched the last 4 episodes and cant wait to see whats coming next. We love how you both freely show your love,frustrations,and laughter with us. LOVED THE DINING ROOM TABLE. Josh’s face was Priceless when you showed it to him. love it. Keep up the Fabulous work.
Ken
Davenport, Fl
I’m reading these comments and can’t believe that people have known about your show for so long and am jealous that I haven’t seen it sooner. My husband and I (and kids when they are awake)started watching the show at the beginning of the summer. Whenever the show is on, we will stop what we are doing to watch and just crack up! You two are so funny and I find you two to be unpredictable. Unfortunatey I keep missing the ending of the episode with Josh’s birthday. So I don’t know if you celebrated his birthday after the wedding. but I’m assuming he got the table. I would love that kind of gift from my hubby. I enjoyed the way you described the importance of the dining room table especially since you inlcuded children.
Thanks for the fun show.
I think Josh has some stiff competition as far as writing abilities, Brent. I have been reading all the things you have written on this site, and I must say you write beautifully! Multi-talented! Maybe you should consider writing a book about the Beekman, too, or making a compilation of all the things you have already written.
Or maybe you and Josh could compile some of both your writings into a book together. We can’t get enough!
Dr. Brent, I just read that you grew up in Randleman NC. I use to live in Franklinville NC. What a small world. Have you ever seen the Goat Lady Dairy that is near there? She is the one that turned me on to goat cheese.
Who do I write at Planet Green to let them know how much we love your show. We are even looking at property in upstate NY. It looks just beautiful plus you have the benefits of having NYC nearby.
Dr. Brent, I lived in Franklinville NC for a while. Did you ever visit the Goat Lady Dairy near Randleman? She is the one that turned me on to goat cheese. Do you have any plans for making any other types of cheese? My husband and I are looking at property in upstate NY, love the look plus the fact that it is only a short way to NYC. Who do I write at Planet Green to tell them how much I love the show and to continue it?
Thanks, Connie. I think there’s only room for one writer’s fragile temperament in our family!
Dr. Brent
What a wonderful post and thoughtful gift. We all know that a good gift-giver is a true testament to a great listener. The poetic story behind the table is a tried and true one of the ages. We do live in a world where the table has lost its flair and focus. This is my life journey. I began this at the beginning of the summer forming a nonprofit organization to reconnect families around the dinner table again. So thank you for the post it put a smile on my face to know tradition is still out there!
Dr. Brent.
Twenty years ago my dad’s brother and sister-in-law were moved to an assisted living facility. They never had children so their belongings were divided among the family. Their dining table was a traditional design in maple that spent most of its time sitting alone in their formal dining room. On the rare occasions it was used, it was covered with a pad and cloth. My husband and I were given this table, along with its 3 leaves and 6 chairs. All our family gatherings center around that table. Over the years it has welcomed a son-in-law, 3 daughters-in-law, 5 grandchildren and a multitude of extended family and friends. It has been the center of Christmas, Thanksgiving, and Easter dinners when we pull up as many extra chairs as possible. It’s been the focal point for countless birthday, graduation and other celebrations and bridal and baby showers. It has been witness to much laughter and anger, along with tears of joy and grief. It has provided the area needed for wrapping presents, creating scrapbooks full of memories along with other crafts. In addition to the meals we share at the tabel, each year four generations of our family gather around it to dye Easter Eggs, play games, have family talks, plan events and comfort one another in times of loss. I hope our table enjoys the increased activity in its life as much as we enjoy having it in ours.
we love the story, Kay
Hi, Dr. Brent! This is the Lisa that you met yesterday at the Mercantile, along with my husband, Mike, and daughter, Peyton. First, I must tell you that Peyton has not stopped talking about you!! She wants to come help you with the goats and to wrap soap. You and Maria were both so gracious to us. I can’t thank you enough for your hospitality and hope to see you at the Festival.
As far as the table, we watched that episode and what a wonderful gift for your Josh. I wanted to share with you the story of my table. My father, who passed away 13 years ago from Multiple Myeloma, was a wonderful carpenter. When I was a little girl, he made a table which I spent my entire childhood growing up with. Meals, homework, Christmas cookies, crafts, Easter eggs — you name it, my family did it at that table. My parents even consumed a few cocktails there with their friends! (Dad loved bourbon, as do I). And now, my husband and daughter are sitting with me at this very same table creating another generation of memories. At times it feels as if he is still sitting there with us; I miss him so much. To see the photos of myself at this wonderful table made by my own Dad’s hands, and to see photos of Peyton at the very same table is priceless. She never was able to meet her grandfather as he passed before she was born, but I know that he is here watching her grow.
My wish is for you and Josh to build a life of memories around your table, as I did with my parents and my sister, and now with my own family. If you and Josh ever decide to have children, what a wonderful gift to pass on. Thanks for such a heartwarming episode and for bringing back so many good memories for me.
With warmest regards,
Lisa
Thanks for the lovely story, Lisa. It was a pleasure to meet the three of you
Dr. Brent
I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoy the show. I live in California with my famiy and the farms are a little different here. My son Adam said your home looks like something out of a movie. We both agreed the table was the most amazing gift! And it has inspired me to be more creative when it comes to birthdays around my home. I plan on giving gifts that can be past along to generations to come. Best wishes to you both.
Hi, Pamela
Every gift should be an heirloom. Enough with the toss away society!
Just watch the opening of the store show and loved it!! Brent you and Josh have the most special relationship of any two people I have ever seen. Please don’t ever change and always stay as close as you are.
Doris
Dear Brent and Josh,
I read the story “the table” two days ago. I just couldn’t get it out of my head, so I decided to tell you my story. Our dining room table is an old one, in our 8th year of marriage my husband and I decided to buy a new table, we had been using hand me downs, and there is nothing wrong with that but we were expanding our family and the one we had would be to small. I coming from a family of 7 and many nieces and nephews, aunts and uncles, grandparents and greats. Our “new” table was not an expensive one but was “OURS”.
Now almost 13 years later, the table has seen 4 children sitting around it , there friends, games played, dinners shared, birthdays celebrated, deaths grieved,futures planned, many homework projects finished, checkbooks balanced, sewing projects cutout, scrapbooking projects…well you get the picture. Our whole life is prjects started and or finished around “the table”. I have refinished it once, and just the other day while visiting with my youngest brother around the table, he mentioned how it could use a refinishing again.
I love our table. Now as I sip my morning coffee and contimplate what I will make for my husbands birthday dinner tonight I bid you good day!
Love your neighbor in colonie,
Sherri
Hi Brent and Josh.
After I discovered “The Fabulous Beekman Boys” I searched until I had watched EVERY episode to date. I just love you two. I only wish I had a relationship as special as the two of you have. I’m afraid my Prince Charming has left me behind. Please promise me you two will love each other for ever. I can’t wait until the next new episode airs.
Love you both,
Michael
Dear Dr. Brent:
My family and and I enjoy all things Beekman! You and Josh have inspired us in many ways and we wish you continued success, good health and happiness. We only wish we were your neighbors!
Our best to all on your Farm – from all on our Farm…
Darby Wolf Nichols
Journey’s End Farm
Jemison, Alabama
Thanks, Darby!
Hey Brent – they are out of soap at the Mall of Millenia’s (Fl) Anthropology. Sales must be good
Hey I love the show!
Did you ever think of having tours at the Beekman Mansion, maybe like one day a week or somehting? That would be great!
Josh and Brent,
What a cool show dudes! Thanks for sharing all the good, funny and challenging tasks you have taken to make your lives and show successful.
And, Brent, WHAT A TABLE!!!! I have been looking for one of those super cool tables for my house for a long, long time. Whenever you decide to start another successful business hand-making tables as simple, as elegant, as strong and as a family-gathering magnet, please let me know because I will be your first client on the list!!!! And, JOSH, enjoy your table for the many happy years to come with BRENT!
You guys ROCK! and your products too!!!!!
Continue having tons of success!
Your friend,
SABINO
Thanks, Sabino
Hi Brent and Josh
I love the show. You are living the “farm life” I dream about while living in Florida, which is generally too hot to grow good veggies…but the orchids sure grow like weeds!
I just got a dining room table of my own for the first time in…well..ever. I just got the house with the space for it. It was a $35 buy at a local thrift shop. It’s great! and it has leaves to make it so the table seats 8. I can now cook the bounty of whatever I can find at Whole Foods and have people over. It’s great to have good food, friends and conversation in the house. I often wonder at how many meals have been had at this table before it came to my house…what caused that scratch? what made that mark? what was in that glass that left the faint circular stain?…and I wonder how many more scratches, meals and conversation this table will see…
love the show. love the goats. Wonderful to see the love put back into the Beekman. It’s beautiful.
Dear Brent,
I am now all alone in this world but I have some beautiful china for 12 that would be beautiful in your home.(matching linens too) Since I have no one to invite over nor a table to eat at, I would love to donate this china to you and Josh. This show has really brightened my life. I would be happy to send photo’s of the china.
Tracy
Tracy,
What a kind, kind thought. Where do you live? Maybe if we are ever in your town we can stop by with 9 of our friends!
Dr.Brent,
When are you coming out with the Beekman line of furniture?
Jimmy
One thing at a time, Jimmy
No problem Dr. Brent. I purchased the 12 month soap set and some cheese. I hope to visit Sharon Springs with my wife and daughter in the Fall. If you need any shoes for the barn please feel free to visit my website at http://www.SteppinBirkenstock.com. You guys are Great! All the best of Luck.
Brent and Josh,
I have been addicted to your show, and books since discovering it a couple months ago. I am medically disabled with back problems, so I have extra time to watch and read. I just wanted to say how much I admire the 2 of you. My niece Kim and I are going to make it to Sharon Springs someday.Maybe we’ll see you at The American for cocktails! Keep doing what you’re doing…..you’re awesome!
Dear Josh,Brent and Farmer John:
Sorry to have come to the end of your 1st seaso, but it was wonderful. I’ve watched you all laugh, love, fight, makeup and keep growing. What a blessed experience. How alive you all have become, not just “office bugs.”
I missed out on the Harvest Festival tickets, but hope spring eternal for next year.
Be well and truly loved,
Maggie McShane
OMG now I know why I haven’t been able to find a new show on On Demand!
Now what am I going to watch? I am devastated. (not really, but I really like your show)
I know you guys probably really need the break and hope you have a great summer.
Till we meet again.
Lee
Dear Brent,
This is the first blog I have ever been inspired to engage in. Memories of our dining room table flooded my mind and I wrote on and on. When it was complete, I shared it with my son and daughter-in-law who informed me they loved reading it, but it was too long for a blog. Who knew? I want to share my ramblings with you and other followers of your blog, who have an interest and ‘time on their hands. I’m hoping this attaches and will be able to be opened, but it it doesn’t perhaps some ‘techno-savy blogger could help.
We watch very little television, but “The Fabulous Beekman Boys” is something we look forward to each week. We (husband, sons, daughter-in-law, girlfriend, sister-in-law and myself) look forward endearingly to seeing your show with you, Josh, your beautiful home and farm, ‘Polka Spot,” and the rest of ‘the girls,’ “Farmer John” and friends and look forward to more Wednesdays at Beekman 1802 during the coming season.
I’d love to help with the tablecloth for lovely dining room table. Please send instructions and type of yarn being used.
Best regards,
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